Sometimes, it can be really hard to know when to call it quits in a relationship.

I’ve known in my gut that something has been wrong in past relationships, but I was so emotionally tied to my exes that I would ignore that niggling feeling that it was time to call it a day.

Now I know every relationship is different, but there are definitely some common signs that it’s time to move on. 

So if you’re wondering whether your relationship might be coming to an end, I’ve put together a list of the main signs that it’s time to end a relationship. 

From constantly bickering to having different life goals, these signs might help you figure out if it’s time to say goodbye. 

7 Signs that enough is enough in a relationship

1. If you’re constantly arguing with each other

We all disagree with our partners sometimes, but when arguments (or even bickering) become a constant, it could be a sign of a communication breakdown especially if your conversations have been a bit off lately. 

I’m not saying you need to call it a day if you’re constantly bickering. 

But if you find that you really can’t find any common ground and every conversation results in an argument then it is a major sign that something is up and you have a lot of stuff to work out with your partner. 

2. There’s no trust in the relationship

I’ve dealt with what to do if you have a lying boyfriend in a previous post, so I won’t really get into it again here. 

But if the guy in your life always lies and can’t be trusted, then you do have to ask yourself what’s the point of the relationship?

You can’t be in a relationship where you can’t believe anything your partner says. 

Lies, lack of trust and cheating can really erode the foundation of your relationship. It’s one thing, if you call him out on it and he stops lying/cheating.  

However, if he’s still being dishonest, then yes, for your sanity it’s time to leave.

3. He gets really jealous

We all know how it feels to get a little jealous in a relationship. The thing is there’s a fine line where jealousy can become draining and controlling.

If your partner’s always questioning your actions or accusing you of cheating, then this can suck the joy out of the relationship. 

And when jealousy gets out of hand, it’s a major sign of insecurity and a lack of trust.

4. You feel alone in the relationship

Feeling lonely in your relationship? Maybe your partner’s too busy or you’re the only one making an effort. 

That feeling could mean there’s a deeper issue of emotional distance between the two of you. 

Talk to your partner, and be very open and honest. See where his head is at and explore what the cause of the emotional distance could be. 

You’ll either rekindle that spark that brought you together in the first place or realise you’ve both come to the end of the road. 

5. If there’s been negative changes in his behaviour

If he’s ignoring your feelings, treating you badly, or being physically or verbally abusive, then it goes without saying that enough is enough and you have to walk away.

It’s never okay to be abused in any way shape or form. Everyone deserves respect and safety in a relationship.

6. You both have different priorities and values

If you want to travel and see the world while your partner is keen on settling down and starting a family, then you definitely have different priorities. 

Being with someone who also wants what you want in life is pretty important. Because chances are one of you will have to sacrifice your dreams and goals, causing resentment down the road.

The same goes for values. We all have values. But sometimes, our partner’s values might not match up with our own, and this can cause some serious tension.

Let’s say for example that you’re all about honesty and transparency but your partner is the total opposite, it can be tough to build that crucial trust and intimacy. 

Or if you swear by loyalty and commitment, but your partner is just like ‘meh’, then it’s tough to imagine a long-lasting relationship.

7. There’s a lack of intimacy

Sexual intimacy is a big part of any healthy relationship and is key to building and maintaining that emotional bond with your partner. 

On the flip side, without it, things can start to feel strained and distant. If neither of you is feeling it anymore,….it’s okay.

If the cause is because of stress, depression or health issues, talk about it and try to work through it together. 

But if the lack of intimacy is because the feelings are just not there anymore then you’ll need to reconsider your relationship because nobody wants to be unfulfilled – in bed or in life!